Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Windowsill Jesus



 


Isn't it wonderful how God uses the Internet to bring people together? Yes, there's a lot of bad stuff on the Internet, but there's a lot of good things and one of the good things is meeting people online and you just "click" with that person. That happened a few months ago for me. I entered a contest on a blog and won any one book from a series titled "Daughters of Boston" written by Julie Lessman. Julie sent me an email and suggested that I request the first book in the series, although I could have any one of the three. Of course, I accepted the first book and loved it so much that I made a point of buying the other two books in the series and her latest book, Hope Undaunted, at the recent ACFW conference. I met Julie while at the conference and she is exactly as she comes across in her emails – sweet, kind, always smiling and a genuine, caring person.
Yesterday Julie was a guest on "Inkwell Inspirations" and her message was so important and it moved me so much that I asked permission to post it on my blog. This message needs to go far and wide because there are many, many people who need to hear of Jesus' love for them. Here is "Windowsill Jesus" as posted by Julie Lessman on Inkwell Inspirations:
When Gina invited me to guest blog today, I was thrilled, not only because I love Gina and the Inkies, but because I love this blog and its focus on writing and God. She told me I could write about "anything related to faith," so I was excited because I LOVE talking about my faith and the amazing things God has taught over my many, MANY years.

But, life happens, as we all know, and I ran out of time. That's when something in my spirit whispered the words, "Windowsill Jesus." Now if you have read my debut novel, A Passion Most Pure, you may remember the acknowledgment at the back of the book to Windowsill Jesus, a true character from my childhood about Whom I wrote a story for a fiction class ten years ago. This is both His story and mine, and as far as I am concerned, there is nothing more "related to faith" (mine, anyway) than what Windowsill Jesus did for me—a young woman desperately groping in the dark before He brought her into His glorious light. And so, without further ado, I give you Windowsill Jesus—the best friend this girl has ever had.

~*~

The Plight of Windowsill Jesus

Mama always said I had an imagination like a runaway train. Wild, out of control and guaranteed to get somebody hurt. She never smiled when she said it. Just shook her head in resignation, her tone flat and lifeless. Not unlike, I often thought, her feelings for me.

She was right, of course. I still remember the night of 'the call'. To this day I swear I wasn't asleep, only drifting on my bed somewhere between contemplation and slumber. The rain pelted against the window like angry tears while I lay in the dark. Somewhere in my head, a phone rang. I never moved a muscle, except in my mind's eye, where I calmly lifted the receiver to my ear.

"Hello Julie, this is the Devil. I'll be there in five minutes." Click.

I jolted up in bed. My ragged breathing slashed the silence while my heart pumped in terror. What should I do? I couldn't call Daddy—I'd get the belt for waking him in the middle of the night. After all, a doctor had to be well-rested to care for his patients. And I knew better than to call for Mama, a woman with little patience for the 3:00 a.m. hysterics of an eight-year-old drama queen. Besides, all of her comfort and care was reserved for the little girl sound asleep in the bed next to mine, the one Mama was sure was an angel sent from above.

Mama was right again. Who wouldn't love a dimple-cheeked cherub like Katie? Stack one sweet-natured, flaxen-haired five-year-old against a spindly, mousy-haired 'angle-shooter', and the contest was over. All hail, Queen Katie. Long live the Queen!

I wanted to hate her, but I couldn't. I wanted her gone, but she was all I had. Katie, a blue-eyed moppet with a sweet smile. She could chase the Devil away with grins and giggles and games of Fish until the pale light of dawn crept through our bedroom window. Only then would we fade into sleep, safe and secure in the cocoon of each other's arms.

Of course, Mama always yelled when she found me asleep in Katie's bed. "You could have smothered her," she'd accuse in a stern voice reserved especially for me.

"But, Mama, Julie had a bad dream," Katie defended, an urgency in her little-girl voice.

It always amazed me how quickly Mama's eyes could shift from steel gray to the softest blue when addressing her youngest daughter. "But Mama doesn't want anything to happen to her little chicken," she would whisper, scooping Katie up in her arms. They'd leave the room then, and all I could see was Katie's sorrowful eyes, watching me over Mama's shoulder.

Moments like that drove me—not to my knees, but to my windowsill. Nose pressed hard against the screen, I'd squint out of the corner of my eye, imagining Jesus sitting on the outside ledge of my parent's room. All I could see were His sandaled feet dangling and the hem of His white robe fluttering in the breeze, but it was enough. We'd talk for a while; mostly me, of course. I'd tell Him how much I needed Mama to love me. Since Sister Cecilia always said God was love, I sort of figured He was in the business, anyway. Why couldn't He make Mama love me, after all? I asked Him to talk to His Dad and the Ghost, you know, just to see if there was anything They could do. He never answered, but I figured He must have heard, because somehow I always felt better for the asking.

Once, when Mama came home from a day of shopping, she piled a tower of boxes on the kitchen table. We squealed with delight as she opened each to reveal its contents. A dress for Katie, a sweater for me, another dress, skirt and blouse for Katie, a hat for me, the latest fad for Katie, nothing for me.

"Mama," Katie said, eyeing my token pile, "I have more than Julie."

"Well, Julie's so hard to fit—I never know what to get her." Mama absently patted my head. "You'll just have to go with me next time, so you can try things on." She turned away, unscrewing her clip earrings as she left the room. I blinked away the blur in my eyes and felt Katie's hand on mine as she looked at me with soulful eyes.

That night, Windowsill Jesus got an earful. He took it rather well, although the sandals seemed to droop more than usual. For a guy in control, He sure didn't talk much. No matter. I had more than enough to say for us both.

I knew it wasn't Katie's fault, but sometimes I made her pay for Mama's love. Like the time we fought over who got the bed on the inside wall next to Mama's room. No way did I want the bed by the door where I was certain monsters loomed at night. But all Katie had to do was shed a few tears, and Mama would descend on me like a Missouri thunderstorm.

"She's just a baby," Mama would say, "Stop being selfish and take the bed by the door." Katie sniffled as Mama gave her a squeeze. "It's okay, little chicken, you can have the bed next to Mama's wall. I want my little girl close."

Before she left the room, Mama would give me the eagle eye, defying me to argue.

"You heard what Mama said … I get the bed by her wall," Katie said.

"No problem," I'd say, smiling and plopping on the bed by the door, legs casually crossed. "I don't want to sleep by Frank, anyway."

Katie blinked. "Who's Frank?" she asked, her voice wavering.

"You know, Frank—as in Dr. Frankenstein? He sleeps in that closet by your bed."

Her eyes widened in terror as she crouched against the headboard. "He does not," she whispered, her face as pale as porcelain.

"Sure he does. Ever notice that big, square trap door at the top of the closet? That's the attic. Frank lives up there. I thought you knew that. But don't worry, he only comes out at night."

"I don't want this bed," she wailed, "I want the bed by the door."

"But Mama said you had to –"

"No! I want the bed by the door."

And so I won, as always with Katie. It was only fair, I reasoned. After all, Katie may have had Mama's heart, but I had the bed by her wall.

Over the years, my visits with Windowsill Jesus became as infrequent as my attempts to win Mama's love. And then one day, both stopped altogether, deliberately tucked away at the age of fourteen into the dark recesses of my 'orphan's' heart. I replaced them with makeup and movies and the all-important quest for a boyfriend.

What I lacked in love, I made up in creativity. My gangly body, just beginning to bud, burgeoned into buxomness when enhanced by bobby socks sewn in where needed. Heavy eyeliner, guaranteed to produce the come-hither look, ribboned my eyes. Through it all, Katie would sit for hours, Indian-style on her bed, watching while I teased my hair and slinked into tight sweaters. Oh, how she would giggle when I'd pucker up, applying enough pale lipstick to produce perfectly pouting lips. I could tell she was fascinated by the evolution of her older sister. A stark contrast to Mama, whose casual indifference was only occasionally punctuated by comments like 'boys don't marry tramps'. A sentiment always echoed by Daddy. When he was around.

When Katie hit her teens, her relationship with Mama hit the skids. Overnight, she transformed from Mama's sweet-faced angel into a celestial beauty anxious to try out her wings. No longer content to be Mama's 'little chicken', Katie dreamed of freedom to follow in my footsteps. I shouldn't have, but I reveled that her dreams became Mama's nightmares.

More and more, Mama seemed to float in and out of depression. On days when she had the energy, she would blame her 'little chicken's' demise on my bad influence. If Katie sassed her, it was my fault. If Katie rose to my defense, Mama accused me of stealing her baby. Mama's attacks still managed to produce a mournful look on Katie's face, but their sting no longer penetrated the steel casing around my heart. Her words would fly, and I would simply turn and leave while Mama squandered her final reserve of energy on silent screams.

The day Mama died began like any other. Daddy left for work early, as usual, and Katie and I slept late. As late as Mama would allow. It was summer, after all. That didn't seem to mean a lot to Mama, who always appeared at our bedroom door promptly at 10:30 a.m. In her mind, we were nothing but 'bed jockeys' who wanted to sleep the day away. In our minds, we were far away in our own personal dreams, romanced and sought after by boys who couldn't live without us.

I awoke that morning to Katie's frantic cries, her arms flailing at my bed covers. "Julie, wake up, wake up—Mama's not breathing! God, what are we going to do?" She stood there, her face contorted in panic, dragging her fingers through the blonde ringlets as if she were going to rip them out by the roots. I lay there in a stupor until the meaning of her words invaded my conscious. I could taste the fear in my mouth as I shot off the bed, pushing past her to Mama's room down the hall.

She looked so peaceful. Not at all like the depressed woman who had taken to crying jags and pacing aimlessly through the house. Just peaceful. In a surreal blur of sirens and doctors and mournful crying, Mama was taken away. An aneurysm in her heart, the doctors decided. A heart that would never know how much I longed to be within it. For the first time in a long time, I thought about Windowsill Jesus. So much for prayers answered. Close the casket on this one, boys, 'cause the God of Love blew it big time. Pack up your prayers, little girl, and move on.

And move on I did. Onto broken curfews, bottles of booze and the notorious free-love era of the 70s. The Devil didn't call me on the phone anymore. No, he just pulled right up to my front door and took me riding. Most nights I'd come home and collapse on my bed, the taste of vomit ripe in my mouth. I remember the room spinning out of control, like my life. Someone was always there, though, holding my hand and wiping my lips with a cool cloth, whispering everything would be all right. Even through a haze of Jack Daniels, I swear Katie looked like an angel. "I love ya, Kate," I would slur before the haze began to dim.

"I know you do, Julie," she would say, "and I love you, too. More than anything in the world. Always have, always will."

I closed my eyes and smiled. Windowsill Jesus smiled back. "Always have, always will," He whispered.

***

I rolled the window down, and the cold, autumn air misted my face like a dream. I stared at the house I once called home and watched the shadows of dusk cloak it in darkness. Blinking back the tears, I leaned out my car window. I could almost smell the cloves and cinnamon from the bourbon pumpkin pies Mama used to bake at Thanksgiving. Almost. Grabbing a Kleenex, I wiped the wetness from my eyes. True, I hadn't felt loved or protected in this home, but it had given me something. Rolling the window up, I turned the key in the ignition and buckled my seatbelt, ready to head home.

Home. Where toddlers clamored for my attention and a husband's eyes lit up when I entered the room. Where perennials bloomed and Katie and I enjoyed prayer luncheons on my cedar deck. Where memories of Mama had softened and deepened and forgiven, just like me. And—most importantly of all—where Windowsill Jesus still kept vigil.



Julie Lessman is an award-winning author whose tagline of "Passion With a Purpose" underscores her intense passion for both God and romance. Winner of the 2009 ACFW Debut Author of the Year and Holt Medallion Awards of Merit for Best First Book and Long Inspirational, Julie is also the recipient of 13 Romance Writers of America awards and was voted by readers as "Borders Best of 2009 So Far: Your Favorite Fiction" at http://www.borders.com/online/store/ListView_best2009favefiction. She resides in Missouri with her husband, daughter, son and daughter-in-law and is the author of "The Daughters of Boston" series, which includes A Passion Most Pure, A Passion Redeemed, and A Passion Denied, as well as the recently released A Hope Undaunted, book 1 of her brand-new "Winds of Change" series. You can contact Julie through her website at http://www.julielessman.com/.



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17 comments:

Julie Lessman said...

Gosh, Edwina, I blubber like a baby every single time I read this thing, and actually, it's a little embarrassing that it still has such a profound effect on me. Just like Mama, I guess, and just like God. :)

Thank you for your kind words and your friendship -- both appreciated beyond measure.

Hugs,
Julie

Project Journal said...

Hi Edwina and Julie!!
Isn't Julie fantastic? It's definitely not limited to ehr writing. I'm talking her character. She is such a genuine person. It oozes from any conversation you have with her even just online or through email. That's what kind of person Julie is.

I'm so glad that you enjoy her books too! Lol...I confess, I've only read A Passion Most Pure on my Kindle. I'm trying to get the next two and I won AHU from Ashley!! Man, it's such a tease to look at it everytime I get in my car (yes, it's in my car! LOL!). BUT I know if I wait and read the others first it will be sooooo much better!!

I so look forward to the day that I can meet Julie : ) And Edwina it would be lovely to meet you too!
Thanks for this GREAT post!
Hannah

Mary Connealy said...

Julie this is such a wonderful story. So powerful. God bless you for writing it and Edwina, God bless you for publishing it.

Tina Russo Radcliffe said...

This was absolutely beautiful Jules and it made me get you in a knew way. xo

Cara Lynn James said...

Julie, this is such an amazing story! It makes me teary.Maybe you should write an entire book based on your childhood.

Michelle said...

Hi Edwina,

I know exactly what you mean about the internet offering all of us the opportunity to meet wonderful people. It's been such a blessing to me to meet people who share a love for Christian fiction and have a heart for God. Like you said, Julie Lessman is one of those special people! What a treat it must have been for you to meet her in person! I pray to have that opportunity some day. :-)

Sweet Blessings,
Michelle

Ruth Logan Herne said...

Ah, Jules, here's a nice glimmer of understanding on why we get on so well...

Absolutely gut-wrenching lovely. Beautiful. Marvelous.

And Edwina, thanks for having our girl over! Sleepovers are always WAAAAAY fun... I especially like the food. Fudge. Cookies. Popcorn. Pizza.

Hugs to both of you.

Loved this.

Ruthy

Pepper Basham said...

WOW, what a story!
Beautiful. and I can relate to the nightmares thing. I used to have them a lot.

Love the beauty of this, Jules
And thanks for having it on, Edwina

Pepper Basham said...

I left a comment earlier here, but wanted to come back and elaborate. Edwina, thanks for placing Julie's story here. It's very powerful and hits a cord with so many people.
I can't imagine feeling unloved by a parent, but I know the feeling of loss - especially right now.
My beloved granny went to meet Jesus on Friday. One second there...the next, gone. But you know, the amazing part was, the last four days of her life, she 'saw' him in her room. She was talking to him. He took her hand from this world and walked with her to the next...a hand she'd never released since she took his over 60 years before.

This post was beautiful, Julie, and was a deepset reminder of how faithful Windowsill Jesus is. Whether we walk to that window or not, he is still there, watching, waiting, keeping our hearts securely fastened when we don't even know if the next beat will break us or not.

And he's there to remind us - we are His, loved, held, and adored beyond our wildest dreams.

I'm so thankful you had a Katie, Jules. But more important, I'm so thankful you had a persistent Rescuer of your Soul, who would not stop chasing you until you were caught.

Janet Dean said...

Julie, your story touched me, filled me with profound saddness for the little girl you. Yet the ending gave me such peace and joy that you invited Jesus off that windowsill and into your heart. Nothing is ever wasted, dear friend. God has used every hurt in your past to make you the wonderful writer you are today.

Much love, Janet

Myra Johnson said...

Amazing story, Julie! It triggered some childhood memories of my own and reminded me how far God can carry us from hurtful pasts.

Edwina said...

I'm so glad all of you were touched by Julie's testimony. As I told her, her testimony needs to "go out into the world."

Thanks to all of you for reading this post and commenting!

Amy Bayliss said...

Wow, Edwina... thanks for sharing Julie's testimony with us. Amazing!

I am ecstatic about the opportunities that the internet opens up to us. We really can go out and reach "all the world" this way.

Julie Lessman said...

HANNAH!!! You are SUCH a doll, and I cannot wait till I get to meet you too!! Hopefully some day at ACFW we will all be able to have lunch together, okay? My treat!!

MARY, thanks, my friend, and we already know God is "blessing you" mightily, but I say bring it on more, Lord!!

Aw, thanks, TEENSTER! Grin ... and I'm glad it made you "get me" in a whole new way ... I think. :/

CARA ... now you sound like my sister, Pat, who is ALWAYS after me to write our family story. But, uh, I write "Calgon, take me away" stories, not "slice of dysfunctional life," remember??? Thanks for coming by, my friend.

MICHELLE!!! I'm gonna start calling you and Hannah "Old Faithful" because whenever I'm on a blog, you guys are there! Only one of the MANY reasons I love ya, though! ;)

Hugs,
Julie

Julie Lessman said...

RUTHY ... "a glimmer of understanding why we get along so well"??? Okay, now you piqued my interest -- you been hanging out at the "tease" Seeker blog too long today, you know it?? EXPLAIN, PLEASE!!

PEPPER ... I am SO sorry, my sweet friend -- I did not know that your beloved granny went home to be with the Lord! I wish you had told me so I could be praying for you through this, but I will start now. My deepest condolences.

Aw thanks, JANET, for your kind words. I am blessed that God connected us together AND to the Seekers!

MYRA ... it's funny how each of our stories "trigger" things in us and other people. One of the many reasons God has blessed us with the privileged profession of writing for Him, so He can use our words to hopefully heal and bring others to Him.

EDWINA ... thanks again for your hospitality. You are a blessing to me and to The Seekers!!

Hugs,
Julie

Julie Lessman said...

Gosh, EDWINA, I wrote a LONG comment of thanks to everyone who came by, and I guess Blogger ate it!!

Anyway, thank YOU, my sweet friend, for posting my story -- you are a blessing!

And thank EVERYONE who came by to comment ... I am blessed you would take the time.

Hugs,
Julie

Julie Lessman said...

AMY ... thank you for reading my testimony, and YES, it is amazing what opportunities the Internet offers to minister to others!

Hugs,
Julie